
Empowering you to achieve greatness every day.


At SELFIRST, I guide you towards personal growth and empowerment. Together, we'll unlock your potential, set meaningful goals, and achieve lasting change. Discover the best version of yourself at SELFIRST - Transform & Thrive

At SELFIRST - Transform & Thrive, I believe that true transformation begins with choosing yourself - not in a selfish way, but in a deeply conscious and empowering way. My philosophy is rooted in the idea that putting and knowing yourself first is an act of self-respect, not ego. When you prioritize your healing, growth and authenticity,
At SELFIRST - Transform & Thrive, I believe that true transformation begins with choosing yourself - not in a selfish way, but in a deeply conscious and empowering way. My philosophy is rooted in the idea that putting and knowing yourself first is an act of self-respect, not ego. When you prioritize your healing, growth and authenticity, you create the space to thrive and uplift others from a place of fullness.
I see each individual as a whole, capable and powerful - even if life's challenges have dimmed that light temporarily.
My role is to help you reconnect with your inner strength, rewrite limiting beliefs, and align your life with your higher self.

I am Santosh Moodley, a certified Transformational life coach, NLP Practitioner and Hypnotherapist with an Honors Degree in Psychology. My passion for human potential has led me to serve as a counsellor and facilitator with Lifeline Durban since 2013.
Beyond my professional qualifications, I bring real-life experience into my coaching.
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I am Santosh Moodley, a certified Transformational life coach, NLP Practitioner and Hypnotherapist with an Honors Degree in Psychology. My passion for human potential has led me to serve as a counsellor and facilitator with Lifeline Durban since 2013.
Beyond my professional qualifications, I bring real-life experience into my coaching.
- married for 28 years understanding the complexities of relationships and personal growth within marriage
- mother to three boys, balancing family life, career and personal development
- business owner for 19 years, overcoming challenges and building a successful enterprise.

I offer both one-on-one sessions and online coaching sessions to accommodate your needs and lifestyle. Whether you prefer the convenience of virtual coaching or the depth of face-to-face interaction, you can choose the format that works best for you. I am based in Umhlanga, Durban.
I offer a complimentary 15 min consultation to explore you
I offer both one-on-one sessions and online coaching sessions to accommodate your needs and lifestyle. Whether you prefer the convenience of virtual coaching or the depth of face-to-face interaction, you can choose the format that works best for you. I am based in Umhlanga, Durban.
I offer a complimentary 15 min consultation to explore your goals, challenges and how my coaching can support your transformation.
For young adults choosing or starting careers, or professionals feeling stuck
Feeling unfulfilled at work? Struggling with relationships?
Build a business with purpose & impact.
Break free from past pain & reclaim your power.
Navigate relationships with confidence & clarity.
Empowering teens & young adults for success.
Finding meaning, connection, and inner peace at any stage of life.
I am beyond grateful for the help I received from Santosh. When I first came to her, I was struggling with what I thought was depression, along with work-related issues and mental blockages. However, Santosh's approach was nothing short of transformative. Through just two sessions, she helped me reframe my thinking and change my perspective on life. It’s as though she opened my eyes to new possibilities I never considered before.
The best way I can describe Santosh is magic. She has an incredible gift for helping people overcome their mental blocks and limiting beliefs. As an ode to Santosh, I’ll say this: as someone who was once a “therapy junkie,” I no longer feel the same urgency to seek therapy every second day.
Thanks to Santosh, I feel empowered, lighter, and more in control of my life. I can't recommend her enough – she truly has a gift. - Fathima
I cannot thank you deeply enough for making me feel at peace with myself because I now have a sense of direction. I feel as if I finally have the knowledge to make a decision about what I want to study. You really have a passion for being there for others. As someone who is usually closed off, you really opened every little door that I kept locked. I've never had anyone tap into my life so deeply and make me understand how my emotions and thinking related to how I view the world and how I was limiting myself. Thank you for helping me move forward. - Shaylee Grade 11
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